by Mary Pope-Handy | Sep 27, 2011 | Catholic Questions, Misunderstandings, Theology
Do dogs, cats and others pets go to heaven when they die? This is a question that children (as well as some adults) ask when a beloved non-human family member passes away.
The Catholic Church doesn’t actually pronounce whether pets go to heaven or not. Sometimes, though, in a moment of pastoral insensitivity or because of a lack of proper grounding, an adult – and sometimes even an authority such as a priest or a parent – incorrectly states that according to the Church, animals do not go to heaven.
Lancer and Pookie, pets of ours from years ago
My family ran into this at our parish when the associate pastor announced to a full church of families with children that his cat had died and that “we all know that pets don’t go to heaven”. I can’t imagine how much harm he did that day from the pulpit, pretending to be authoritative on an area out of his depth. If nothing else, even had he mistakenly believed this to be Catholic teaching, there was no pastoral benefit to his statement – only harm. What was he thinking? (more…)
by Mary Pope-Handy | Apr 13, 2011 | Misunderstandings, Theology
The other day, a friend of mine thanked me for starting this blog. She asked if I could address the topic of what to do when people say nasty things to you about being Catholic. In other words, how to respond to myths and prejudice.
Right now, with the terrible pedophilia and cover up scandals ravaging many parts of the church (both in dioceses and with “regular” or ordinary priests and also within religious orders, in many countries), on top of misunderstandings and bias we have genuine and deserved anger from both within and without. So perhaps the unpleasant comments are coming a little faster and more openly than usual.
But how to respond when faced with nasty comments? Often they are based on incorrect information. It can be hard to answer when you may not have a solid footing on the topic yourself. Ideally, then, it can be an opportunity for you to talk to others who might be able to fill you in on that subject and have your own knowledge (and maybe even your faith) grow in the process.
There’s a wonderful little book, light reading with solid content, that I have given away probably 2 dozen or more times. For many Catholics, it goes over “the basics” in an easy to digest way that makes sense and is easy to read and absorb. Written with humor (and cartoons) at times, it was something I found helpful when I was a teacher of high school students. The book is titled “How to Survive Being Married to a Catholic” and is published by Paulist Press. It’s really a book aimed at explaining basic Catholic tenants in a simple, matter of fact way. You can order it online or see if Ave Maria Community Book Center*, our large, local Catholic bookstore, carries it.
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