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Category Archives: Alienation & Belonging
Nourished by the Church
Are you feeling nourished by the Church? There are some wonderful parishes and priests out there. Right now, one of the silver linings to Covid is that we can live stream Mass from anywhere in the world. If your own … Continue reading
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Tagged alienation, change, Mass
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Scandalized by the Church
The abuse crisis has caused many Catholics to be scandalized by the Church. The irony is that Catholic leaders hid what was happening precisely because they did not want to scandalize the faithful – among other reasons, of course. Like … Continue reading
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Tagged Abuse Crisis, healing, scandalized
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Rebuild My Church
Imagine praying intently while all alone, and then hearing something – not a little voice in your head or heart, a but one outside of you which you hear with your ears. This happened to St. Francis many centuries ago. … Continue reading
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Tagged Abuse Crisis, Fr. Brendan McGuire, Thomas Reese SJ
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The alienation of elderly Catholics
“Growing old is not for sissies,” my grandmother used to quip. She would know as she lived to be just 2 days shy of her 100th birthday. As people age, they tend to suffer a series of losses: loss of … Continue reading
Does being a public figure make you a public target? Pity the poor bishops.
My family is one of those expansive, Irish Catholic clans which has been richly enhanced by the presence of priests, nuns, brothers, and in far larger supplies, devout (but down to earth, not syrupy sweet) lay folks. Spanning several categories, … Continue reading
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Tagged bishops, Catholic, charitable, communication, los gatos, public figure, response
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The Pact of the Catacombs, and understanding Pope Francis better
Pope Francis seems to be the spirit of Vatican II personified. In the couple of months in which he’s been our pontiff, we have experienced one new breath of fresh air after the next. Can you boil down his message, … Continue reading
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Holy Thursday
Today is Holy Thursday, the day we celebrate The Last Supper and also the sacrament of ordination and the priesthood. Pope Francis gave a beautiful homily this morning on anointing, and that priests are to go out and find the … Continue reading
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Tagged anointing, ordination, Pope Francis, Prayer of St. Francis
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Feeling like you belong at Church
In Silicon Valley, there are so many opportunities to attend Mass that it’s very easy to drift from Mass to Mass and yet never feel a sense of belonging to the particular group with whom you are worshiping. This is … Continue reading
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Tagged belonging, hospitality, welcoming
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Introduction of new liturgical changes
Although the changes to prayers and songs at Mass aren’t officially required until the beginning of Advent this year, many parishes and other Catholic communities (such as at Mission Santa Clara) in the Diocese of San Jose have already begun … Continue reading
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Tagged Diocese of San Jose, liturgical changes, Mass
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When Bad Homilies Happen (to Good Catholics)
Everyone’s a critic. When it comes to preaching and to homilies, it has got to be tough to get up in front of the community and be inspiring and insightful if you’re under-slept, overworked, rushed or maybe even going through … Continue reading
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Tagged alienation, deacon, homilies, Mass, preaching, priest
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