About Mary

2018-8-3 Mary Pope-HandyWhat about Mary? Who is this blogger?

  • I’m a Silicon Valley native, having been born at O’Connor Hospital in San Jose.
  • I’m happily married to Jim Handy (July 1985) with two young adult kids, both graduates of Loyola Marymount University in Los Angeles (Brian 2012, Computer Science; Clair 2013, Theatre).  High schools they attended and graduated from were Bellarmine College Prep and Notre Dame High School, both in San Jose.
  • Over the years, we have been blessed with pets of all kinds: fish, a frog, a bunny, several dogs, and a pet rat named Pookie. Currently, though, we are down to one hearty fish.
  • I hold a BA in Religious Studies from Gonzaga University and an MA in Systematic Theology from the Jesuit School of Theology at Berkeley (now part of Santa Clara University).  My master’s thesis was on marriage, divorce, divorce ministry and annulment.  I wrote it while engaged, which raised some eyebrows – but in truth I learned a lot and I think it has helped my marriage!  I have a very big soft spot for anyone who feels alienated from the church, and my thesis was an effort to better understand, and hopefully to help, at least some of them.  When I hear Pope Francis speak on this topic, I almost think he read my thesis 🙂
  • I come from an extended Irish-Catholic family where the priorities were faith, family & education.  My maternal grandparents, Eleanor and Michael Buckley, had a lot to do with my paying attention at Mass and feeling like God cared about me, personally, and that each of us matters… I really understood from them that the family is the “first church” community and that family members are the most important teachers of the faith.
  • Other influences in my life include family members in various religious orders, including Carmelite, Notre Dame de Namur, Christian Brothers and Jesuit. My family’s also been touched by association with Maryknoll (my sister was a lay volunteer in Venezuela for several years) and other volunteer groups of lay people. But if you don’t like this blog, please don’t hold it against any of them.
  • And more… encouraging people who helped me to want to pursue theology & ministry were a couple of fabulous diocesan priests I met as a teen and as an adult in the Los Gatos & Saratoga areas.
  • Prior to having kids, I enjoyed working as a religion teacher in Catholic high schools in California.
  • I’ve had experience with many other types of ministry with the sick, children, and grieving individuals is part of my background as well (mostly volunteer work).
  • We are parishioners at St. Mary of the Immaculate Conception in Los Gatos but most often participate at the community at Mission Santa Clara.  If you come in through one of the back, side doors at the Mission on for a Sunday morning liturgy, you may find me greeting there, as I do this about once a month.
  • Since 1993 I have been in business selling residential real estate in the west valley areas of Los Gatos, Saratoga, Campbell, and San Jose primarily (Cambrian and Almaden), but working all of Santa Clara County and sometimes even a bit beyond.  I love helping nice folks to buy and sell homes.  Most of my business is based on repeat and referral clients, but also I meet wonderful people who find me through my real estate blogs.  I’m an education junkie and love to share what I’ve learned with my clients – most of whom become my friends.
  • In my free time, I love to enjoy walks in my neighborhood, write, see movies or go to plays or musicals, keep up with family and friends, collect ghost stories (for another blog, HauntedRealEstate.com) practice my photography and as time and budget allow, travel.  (Due to family ties, I am a huge Patriots fan but also love the 49ers.)  I spent my junior year of college in Florence, Italy and speak a little Italian even now.  Although genetically I’m Irish, English & Welch, my stomach and my heart seem to think I’m Italian.  I have seen some of Italy but not nearly enough.  I have had the pleasure to visit much of Europe (Spain, France, Germany, Hungary, Belgium, Austria, Switzerland, the Netherlands), plus England, Ireland, Israel, Greece, Japan, Canada, Mexico and Tahiti.  My travel “wish list” is long.

If you haven’t had enough, you can read more about my background at either of my two main realty websites:



Or connect with me on twitter:

http://www.Twitter.com/MaryPopeHandy (a little bit of everything, posting often)
http://www.Twitter.com/SVCatholic (posting religious stuff, but almost never)


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2 Responses to About Mary

  1. Aldo says:

    Ringrazio Mary che mi permette di scoprire e vedere tanti aspetti della California.
    Sono piacevolmente colpito, e spesso ammirato, dal fervore con cui si pratica la fede cattolica. E’ consolante e bello vedere come dall’altra parte del mondo c’è gente che vive la nostra stessa fede e sentirla, così, vicina e appartenente alla stessa famiglia.
    Uno può sempre dire:non sono mai solo in questo mondo!

  2. Mary Pope-Handy says:

    Grazie mille, Aldo, sei sempre tanto gentile! Spero che posso autiare un po’….

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